The difference between FERMARE and SMETTERE
Misusing or swapping the verbs fermare and smettere is one of the most frequent errors students of Italian as a second language do, and I understand why. The confusion is drove by the fact that both verbs, in English, have only one translation: stopping.
Instead, Italian has two different verbs to indicate the action of stopping. One verb is fermare, and the other one is smettere. What’s the difference between them, then? They are used with a different meaning, which depends on the nature of the action they are describing.
Let’s have a closer look..
WHEN TO USE “FERMARE”
Fermare is the action of stopping something or someone.
We can also say that the verb fermare describes a physically stopped movement by an intervention from outside.
- Ho fermato quella ragazza che mi piaceva tanto per chiederle il numero – I stopped that girl that I liked so much to ask for her phone number
- Ho fermato la macchina – I stopped the car
As you might have noticed, when the action described by the verb is transitive (meaning the verb is followed by an object like la macchina or la ragazza, the verb is normal. However, if the action is intransitive (meaning that the verb does not have a direct object ), it takes the reflexive form.
- L’autobus si è fermato – the bus stopped
- Mi sono fermato al bar perché c’erano i miei amici – I stopped by the bar because some friends of mine were there
WHEN TO USE SMETTERE
Smettere means stopping doing something and does not involve an idea of movement.
In short, it has the meaning of ceasing or quitting and is always followed by the preposition di and an infinitive verb.
Smettere can never be followed by a noun (ho smesso di lavoro)
- Vorrei smettere di fumare – I’d like to quit smoking
- Ho smesso di lavorare per dedicarmi alla mia famiglia – I stopped working to spend more time with my family
Attenzione! Smettere has an irregular past tense: ho smesso, hai smesso, etc…